How young is too young?
| The Tiger |
 Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 2:14am |
|
I hooked up with this girl when I was in Barcelona last week and she is really cool. She wants to meet up again, which I am all up for. Only thing that is holding me up, is that she is 18. For those of you around my age (im 24) - would you find it a bit odd 'dating' someone that young? Please advise. |
| R |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 2:16am |
|
thats alright |
| Oasisunit |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 2:23am |
|
18 is more than fine, go for it.. i think 18-21 is when most girls are in ther peak... most american girls get fat and look old by the age of 23 |
| Horatio |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 2:29am |
|
|
Bedtime now please R & The Tiger. Oasisunit you are okay because you live in the states. |
| theCORN |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 2:43am |
 |
As long as the girl is over 18 i dont think it matters...A girl i know who is 18 is going out with a 36 year old thats when it gets a tad odd. |
| capnjazz |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 2:50am |
|
|
18 is fine imo. Six years really isn't even that big of an gap either. |
| Homer |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 8:49am |
|
anyone see in the papers (could be bollocks) that noel fielding was getting off with pixie geldof, shes 16 |
| Homer |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 8:58am |
|
|
oh an 18 would be a dream imo |
| Antmusic |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 8:58am |
|
It depends on how mature she is. I have gone on dates with (slightly) younger girls when the age difference was apparent. If you really get on with her and she is 18+, i dont see a problem. |
| JaiRo |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:03am |
|
18 is good to go, in fact, she must have blossomed really nicely by now. |
| Popeye Doyle |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:07am |
|
|
agreeing with antmusic, if shes "on your level" then no problem. i think most people tend to go for girls around their ages due to the fact most younger girls can be a tad immature etc. |
| FrIEND |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:23am |
|
6 years aint no thing - but my mindset is that when I hear of 18 year olds going out with 36 year olds....im hoping I have that opportunity when I get to 36...so I might not be the best person to listen too. |
| FrIEND |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:25am |
|
|
isnt it something like divide it by 2 and add 6 to find out whats acceptable? 24/2=12(+6)=18. you |
| andymakesglasses |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:39am |
 
|
did you read that in Cosmopolitan? |
| FrIEND |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:42am |
|
|
Actually I worked it backwards from the girl im seeing at the moment to my age I call it "the justification calculation" |
| El Bongo |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:44am |
|
|
isnt it something like divide it by 2 and add 6 to find out whats acceptable? 24/2=12(+6)=18. you Hmmm a twenty year old going out with a sixteen year old is'nt right. |
| FrIEND |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:45am |
|
|
so your saying at 19 I shouldnt be doing what im doing? |
| Sol |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:52am |
 |
Fine if you are just after a shag and a bit of a fling. But at 18 there is no point having a proper relationship with her. |
| FrIEND |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 9:56am |
|
|
i was joking in my last post just incase anyone gets the wrong idea. im well not that young. I disagree with Sol though. everyones different - depends on the person and what kinda 18 year old she is. 6 years aint nothing in my opinion - I know many girls that have boyfriends alot older than them - as with everything it depends on compatability. |
| Ineff |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 10:07am |
|
|
No way are you 24! |
| JimmyC |
Posted: Mon, 09/04/2007 - 10:32am |
|
Fine if you are just after a shag and a bit of a fling. But at 18 there is no point having a proper relationship with her. I'd agree with that. |
