General Discussion: best/worst


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bungleski
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550 posts since 21/7/11

11 Feb 2021 21:19
Hanto wrote:
andymakesglasses wrote:
bungleski wrote: Congrats Hanto, your little man turned up a couple of weeks early then?

Mum keen to put the brakes on the Visvim purchases.

He timed it just after the end of the Mr P Extra 20% promo, so knew what he was doing. Laughing out loud Laughing out loud Laughing out loud

He did yes. 37 plus 2 in the end. All fine and relatviely quick and smooth. Nothing stressful, but did work through every pain relief and birthing method going, bar a pool!

Glad to hear it mate.
Missus gave birth to our third child last week, bugger was so quick he ended up being born in the living room! Luckily the midwife turned up before I had to pull on the marigolds.

Lockdown 1.0 good for Zoom quizzes and shagging Cool
discobobulated
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1050 posts since 21/4/10

11 Feb 2021 21:25
Congrates on child and condolences on spending power.
misled
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4406 posts since 3/1/02

11 Feb 2021 23:12
Congrats Hanto and bungleski! Our second was born just before Christmas . FUK lockdown kids!
NigelBenn
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4402 posts since 6/2/08

11 Feb 2021 23:35
Congrats!!!!
Doogan
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1029 posts since 13/4/14

12 Feb 2021 00:01
Congrats on the bairns everyone. Our first baby arrived 7 weeks early on 2nd December. Fair to say it was a stressful time but things going well now.



smith
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11380 posts since 5/5/04

12 Feb 2021 00:37
Congrats fuker parent crew Ubercool
JustinCredible
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2691 posts since 11/6/08

12 Feb 2021 07:58
Congrats and welcome to the club, best/worst perfect thread for it too!
bungleski
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550 posts since 21/7/11

12 Feb 2021 08:21
#fukdadladz congrats to you all, hope you’re getting more sleep than I have been.. Eek
Razorlight123
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4975 posts since 13/1/10

12 Feb 2021 08:50
Nice one! Congratulations guys Ubercool
LFC
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5599 posts since 14/6/11

15 Feb 2021 08:24
Best: Been with my Mrs 8 years today. The only girl I can say I’ve never cheated on Cool
ismvil
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1821 posts since 16/9/11

15 Feb 2021 08:41
LFC wrote: Best: Been with my Mrs 8 years today. The only girl I can say I’ve never cheated on Cool

Congrats you horny motherfucker
Dreep
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1666 posts since 29/7/08

posted 22 May 2021 05:39, edited 22 May 2021 05:39
"Best": I'm having a child.

Worst: I fucking hate the person it's with and I'm too mentally unstable for it.

How the fuck do you deal with this shit I can't function right now. Panic attacks non stop I just want to fucking run.

I hate the situation but I would never not be there for the child and she's making it clear she doesn't want me involved. I'm fucking going through a traumatic experience.
waterfall
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1274 posts since 14/1/07

22 May 2021 06:26
stop the gear mate, things will get better from there
jplxx
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1817 posts since 3/11/09

22 May 2021 07:30
Stop drinking aswell. https://youtu.be/sTJ7AzBIJoI
Hanto
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3129 posts since 30/11/09

22 May 2021 07:59
Talk to someone is the best advice I can give. Having thought about killing myself in the first fortnight of having our baby, it was a massive help to be open about struggling and get help, either practical or medical. If you feel comfortable.
Rez
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8681 posts since 5/4/09

22 May 2021 08:34
Completely anecdotal dreep but I do know people who have had an unexpected kid, had a really rough time through pregnancy, barely speaking etc. but still managed to become civil and be there for each other and the kid by the time it comes, so it is possible.
swede
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9837 posts since 21/3/09

22 May 2021 10:25
Papa dreep Ubercool

Wishing you all the best with it man
crutch
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491 posts since 22/11/12

22 May 2021 10:43
Sounds tough, feel for you man. it’s a long road though and you will eventually find a way that works.

Pregnancy is a rollercoaster and there’s a lot of emotion and change that happens for the mum - she might be making it clear now she doesn’t want you involved but than can change.
Go softly I reckon, offer support and try to show that you care about the child - which it is clear you do - and that your motivation is to be there for them.

Don’t try to ‘fix’ it straight away it’s a complicated situation and will take a while to find an amicable solution - and it will change constantly as the child grows! But down the road you will be able to be there for your child and develop a relationship with them. It’s a long journey.

Hardest fucking thing I’ve ever done, but trust me it’s also the most rewarding thing in the world. You’ll find a way and it will be ok.
Crackajack
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7962 posts since 21/4/05

22 May 2021 11:14
Best of luck mate. You can do this.
NigelBenn
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4402 posts since 6/2/08

22 May 2021 12:22
Dreep wrote: "Best": I'm having a child.

Worst: I fucking hate the person it's with and I'm too mentally unstable for it.

How the fuck do you deal with this shit I can't function right now. Panic attacks non stop I just want to fucking run.

I hate the situation but I would never not be there for the child and she's making it clear she doesn't want me involved. I'm fucking going through a traumatic experience.
Firstly congratulations, the baby is going to have a cool af dad. You’ve got this. Everything for a reason Dreep. I don’t think anybody is ever “ready”.

My baby is due in a month and I’m shitting myself as well. Be good to chat through it