22 May 2021 15:21
Good luck Dreep - change isn't easy but it can be good
22 May 2021 22:06
This could be just what you need Dreep, something to focus on and help you sort yourself out.
I'm not sure anyone ever feels completely ready.
LFC
6035 posts since 14/6/11
22 May 2021 22:30
And Dreep, be there for your child. Get yourself sorted. It’s scary as fuck, you need to be there for your child, they don’t ask to be brought in to this world so you’ve got to be there for them wether you hate the mum or not. Dad’s have the same rights as mums so you can always see you kid man.
22 May 2021 23:43
"dad's have the same rights as mum's" try telling that to the solicitors bills I ran up back in the day.
Hanto
3536 posts since 30/11/09
23 May 2021 08:34
generic_guy wrote: This could be just what you need Dreep, something to focus on and help you sort yourself out.
I'm not sure anyone ever feels completely ready.
I felt the same with mine. It has make me feel like I have a renewed purpose.
Dreep
1905 posts since 29/7/08
25 May 2021 21:11
Cheers for the kind words everyone, but o' boy am I glad with the latest revelation, although it's probably bad news for her.
Best: I ain't being no baby daddy.
Worst: She's just got some sort of abnormal growth in her stomach and /or her ovaries are fucked, she's pretty sure it's cancer or whatever but isn't telling me anything and has since blocked me.
Really telling few days how I was actually prepared to be a dad, I mentally was ready to step up. Even told both my parents about it who weren't happy at first but basically reassured me into it.
But yeah, super stoked it's not occuring with her. May I now just find the right person.
Hanto
3536 posts since 30/11/09
25 May 2021 22:00
swiftus wrote: Hanto wrote: generic_guy wrote: This could be just what you need Dreep, something to focus on and help you sort yourself out.
I'm not sure anyone ever feels completely ready.
I felt the same with mine. It has make me feel like I have a renewed purpose.
You know all that Vis is getting passed down to future generations

Its certainly some form of inheritance!
Hanto
3536 posts since 30/11/09
8 Jun 2021 07:45
Best: Under 30s Covid jabs
Best: Booked next Friday before it goes titsup on 'Freedom Day'
ismvil
2083 posts since 16/9/11
8 Jun 2021 09:24
Not trying to be Fudge, but if I were a betting man I'd say they push it back a couple of weeks with this whole Delta variant nonsense
Hanto
3536 posts since 30/11/09
8 Jun 2021 09:54
ismvil wrote: Not trying to be Fudge, but if I were a betting man I'd say they push it back a couple of weeks with this whole Delta variant nonsense
I do agree, hence the inverted commas!

doesn't affect my holiday so that's all good for me.
ismvil
2083 posts since 16/9/11
8 Jun 2021 10:04
Bro I've been back and forth to a red list country every month this year and have spent zero days in hotel quarantine just by using my brain once in a while, the whole system is a mess