General Discussion: Relationship Anniversarys.

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Superprecise avatar

2033 posts since 16/7/11

28 Feb 2019 18:14
NigelBenn avatar

4016 posts since 6/2/08

28 Feb 2019 19:16
Don’t mug yourself off for this new bird. I think she’s one of those women who likes to prove her worth when men leave their girlfriends “for her”. Beware.

You’ll continue being her side piece until she gets bored of you and decides to settle down with the other geezer. Leaving you in a worse situation then you are now.

Sorry if that’s harsh but you’re better off meeting somebody else altogether.
pentonville avatar

337 posts since 12/3/12

posted 28 Feb 2019 23:55, edited 28 Feb 2019 23:55
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swede avatar

7761 posts since 21/3/09

posted 1 Mar 2019 09:11, edited 1 Mar 2019 09:11
YLAup wrote: However, spend most nights per week with this other girl socially. She's back with this other chap (a borderline millionaire with a Jag and a four bedroom house)

C-Stylez avatar

5077 posts since 4/7/12

1 Mar 2019 10:03
she better be mind-blowingly fit for you to be putting yourself through this.
blackham avatar

1693 posts since 17/7/13

1 Mar 2019 10:11
fam, get on tinder / bumble / hinge - you're coming out of a 4 year relationship, looking into getting with a girl who already has some rich sugar daddy; it's not worth the hassle. get on tinder, sleep around, enjoy this summer, then, if you really want it, start looking for a ting.
YLAup avatar

5059 posts since 5/9/11

25 Mar 2019 21:06
So I still appear to be doing the exact opposite of everything I should be doing. After a couple of fairly careful weeks of her tiptoeing around her boyfriend, restricting our time together after work, we've still been out on the lash a few times, had mock dates and went to a gig this weekend, and stuff happened. Texts/WhatsApps are constant. She comprehensively says there is no way she's leaving her boyfriend. You have to feel sorry for the guy, a bit.

So as a single man, I'm just going with it as it's fun, but I just don't get the psychology of it all. It's not as if she's not paying her way. She's absolutely untrustworthy but equally as stunning. She's out of the country for 6 weeks soon and leaving the job so I'm sort of hoping that will be that and can get on with my fuk life.
YLAup avatar

5059 posts since 5/9/11

25 Mar 2019 21:14
Might just get back with my ex and have the bloody kid. Seems easier these daysLaughing out loud
RickRude avatar

3254 posts since 13/1/12

25 Mar 2019 21:15
Haven’t you even smashed it mate ?
Blofeld avatar

138 posts since 30/12/15

26 Mar 2019 00:33
15 minutes very well spent reading this.

but from the neutral perspective it definitely reads like she's playing you just as much, if not more, than she's playing her boyfriend. you're just waisting your time, mate.
nothingelseworked avatar

3177 posts since 21/2/10

26 Mar 2019 17:47
YLAup, never stop please
Burt avatar

5366 posts since 3/1/10

26 Mar 2019 18:41
nothingelseworked wrote: YLAup, stop please
swede avatar

7761 posts since 21/3/09

26 Mar 2019 19:57
Burt wrote:
nothingelseworked wrote: YLAup, stop please
quest avatar

3181 posts since 11/7/11

26 Mar 2019 20:33
swede wrote:
Burt wrote:
nothingelseworked wrote: YLAup, stop please

stop being a mug
illwill avatar

3442 posts since 17/5/04

26 Mar 2019 20:43
Please can a mod rename this thread in YLA's honour