General Discussion: Relationship Anniversarys.


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Superprecise
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2126 posts since 16/7/11

28 Feb 2019 18:14
NigelBenn
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4091 posts since 6/2/08

28 Feb 2019 19:16
Don’t mug yourself off for this new bird. I think she’s one of those women who likes to prove her worth when men leave their girlfriends “for her”. Beware.

You’ll continue being her side piece until she gets bored of you and decides to settle down with the other geezer. Leaving you in a worse situation then you are now.

Sorry if that’s harsh but you’re better off meeting somebody else altogether.
pentonville
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417 posts since 12/3/12

posted 28 Feb 2019 23:55, edited 28 Feb 2019 23:55
Our man´s new lifestyle guru - Justin Theroux

HE CAN DO WHATEVER THE HELL HE WANTS

https://www.instagram.com/p/Brp-wDgHCtD/
swede
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8308 posts since 21/3/09

posted 1 Mar 2019 09:11, edited 1 Mar 2019 09:11
YLAup wrote: However, spend most nights per week with this other girl socially. She's back with this other chap (a borderline millionaire with a Jag and a four bedroom house)

C-Stylez
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5123 posts since 4/7/12

1 Mar 2019 10:03
she better be mind-blowingly fit for you to be putting yourself through this.
blackham
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1743 posts since 17/7/13

1 Mar 2019 10:11
fam, get on tinder / bumble / hinge - you're coming out of a 4 year relationship, looking into getting with a girl who already has some rich sugar daddy; it's not worth the hassle. get on tinder, sleep around, enjoy this summer, then, if you really want it, start looking for a ting.
YLAup
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5234 posts since 5/9/11

25 Mar 2019 21:06
So I still appear to be doing the exact opposite of everything I should be doing. After a couple of fairly careful weeks of her tiptoeing around her boyfriend, restricting our time together after work, we've still been out on the lash a few times, had mock dates and went to a gig this weekend, and stuff happened. Texts/WhatsApps are constant. She comprehensively says there is no way she's leaving her boyfriend. You have to feel sorry for the guy, a bit.

So as a single man, I'm just going with it as it's fun, but I just don't get the psychology of it all. It's not as if she's not paying her way. She's absolutely untrustworthy but equally as stunning. She's out of the country for 6 weeks soon and leaving the job so I'm sort of hoping that will be that and can get on with my fuk life.
YLAup
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5234 posts since 5/9/11

25 Mar 2019 21:14
Might just get back with my ex and have the bloody kid. Seems easier these daysLaughing out loud
RickRude
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3277 posts since 13/1/12

25 Mar 2019 21:15
Haven’t you even smashed it mate ?
Blofeld
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181 posts since 30/12/15

posted 26 Mar 2019 00:33, edited 26 Mar 2019 00:33
15 minutes very well spent reading this.

but from the neutral perspective it definitely reads like she's playing you just as much, if not more, than she's playing her boyfriend. you're just wasting your time, mate.
nothingelseworked
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3375 posts since 21/2/10

26 Mar 2019 17:47
YLAup, never stop please
Burt
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5746 posts since 3/1/10

26 Mar 2019 18:41
nothingelseworked wrote: YLAup, stop please
swede
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8308 posts since 21/3/09

26 Mar 2019 19:57
Burt wrote:
nothingelseworked wrote: YLAup, stop please
quest
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3335 posts since 11/7/11

26 Mar 2019 20:33
swede wrote:
Burt wrote:
nothingelseworked wrote: YLAup, stop please

stop being a mug
illwill
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3792 posts since 17/5/04

26 Mar 2019 20:43
Please can a mod rename this thread in YLA's honour
YLAup
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5234 posts since 5/9/11

29 Aug 2019 16:48
Thought any fukers who cared, rightly deserved an update for a laugh/mock. So I moved out, didn't inconvenience myself too greatly in all honesty.

But the girl at work continued in her games, she went on holiday with her boyfriend, all expenses paid 2 week fly/drive to the US for his birthday, and text me constantly throughout when the time difference allowed. Whenever I went on dates and they went well, she'd tell me she was jealous. She recently broke up with her rich boyfriend for a second time after he bought her a hot tub, and has now started seeing another guy, in my office. He's just dumped his own girlfriend for her.

So to the person who called out that she's probably just seeing if men will dump their girlfriends for this clown, here's to you Laughing out loud
Mancunia
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645 posts since 29/10/12

29 Aug 2019 17:31
NigelBenn wrote: Sack them both off YLAup. Book yourself a holiday, download the apps and man up. Bang different birds every weekend if you want but DO NOT contact either of them. They’ll come begging for you back or you’ll have met somebody better and 6 months down the road you’ll be glad you made this decision.

Nothing wrong with sleeping with girls from work but don’t be a mug and catch feelings for the office tramp.

Laughing out loud Laughing out loud great read
quest
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3335 posts since 11/7/11

posted 29 Aug 2019 17:43, edited 29 Aug 2019 17:43
in situations like this, you just have to take all your clothes off and have a nice big dump to reflect on it all
YLAup
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5234 posts since 5/9/11

posted 29 Aug 2019 17:48, edited 29 Aug 2019 17:48
Laughing out loud
NigelBenn
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4091 posts since 6/2/08

29 Aug 2019 18:00
Ah YLAup…don’t beat yourself up about it mate. This is just another life lesson. Keep looking forward and think to yourself that this could be a lot worse. You didn’t have a kid or catch an STI or anything like that at least

I slept with a dodgy bird last year who my mates warned me about and ended up with the clap Laughing out loud Oops